Sunday, 8 March 2015

A Difficult Predicament Indeed

 One of our pious predecessors, Thabit Ibn Nu’man (rahmatullah alaih), was hungry and tired as he was passing through a garden that bordered a river. He was so hungry to the extent that he could hear his stomach growling and his eyes became focused on the fruits he saw on the various trees of the garden. In a fit of desperation, he forgot himself and extended his hand to an apple that was within reach. He ate half of it and then drank water from the river. Then he became overcome by guilt, despite the fact that he had only eaten because of dire need. He said to himself, “Woe unto me! How can I eat someone else’s fruits without his permission? I make it compulsory upon myself not to leave this place until I find the owner of this garden and ask him to forgive me for having eaten one of his apples.”

 After a brief search, he found the owner’s house. He knocked on the door and the owner of the garden came out and asked him what he wanted. Thabit Ibn Nu’man said, “I entered your garden that borders the river, I took this apple and I ate half of it. Then I remembered that it does not belong to me, so I ask you now to excuse me for having eaten it and to forgive me for my mistake.”

 The man replied, “On one condition only will I forgive you for your mistake.” Thabit Ibn Nu’man asked, “And what is that condition?” He said, “That you marry my daughter.” Thabit Ibn Nu’man said, “I will marry her.” The man said, “However, heed to this; indeed my daughter is blind, she does not see, mute, she does not speak and deaf, she does not hear.”

 Thabit Ibn Nu’man began to ponder over his situation; a difficult predicament indeed, did he find himself  to be in now; what should he do? Do not get out of it, thought Thabit Ibn Nu'man. He realised that to be tested by such a woman, to take care of her, and to serve her, are all better than to eat from the foul matter of the Hell-Fire as a recompense for the apple that he ate. After all, the days of this world are few and limited.

 Thus, he accepted the condition to marry the girl, seeking his reward from Allaah (Subḥānahu wa ta'āla). He was nonetheless, somewhat anxious in the days prior to the marriage. He thought, how can I have relations with a woman who neither speaks nor sees nor hears? He became so miserable that he almost wished for the earth to swallow him up before the appointed date. Yet despite such apprehension, he placed his complete trust upon Allaah (swt) and he said, “There is neither might nor power except from Allaah (swt). Indeed to Allaah do we belong and to Him do we return.”

 On the day of his marriage, he saw her for the first time. She stood up before him and said, “Peace, be upon you, and the mercy and blessings of Allaah (swt).” When he saw her grace and beauty, he was reminded of what he would see when he would imagine the fair maidens of Paradise. After a brief pause, he said, “What is this? She indeed speaks, hears and sees.” He then told her what her father had said earlier.

 She said, “My father has spoken the truth. He said I was mute because I do not speak any forbidden word and I have never spoken to a man who is not lawful to me. I am also indeed deaf in the sense that I have never sat in a gathering in which there is backbiting, slander, or false and vain speech. Additionally, I am blind in the sense that I have never looked upon a man who is not permissible for me.”

 Dear readers! Reflect and learn a lesson from the story of this pious man and this pious woman and of how Allaah (swt) brought them together. The fruit of this noble marriage was the birth of a child who grew up to fill the earth with knowledge. Yes, their son was none other than the great Imam Abu Haneefah Numan Ibn Thabit (rahmatullah alaih)!

(From 'Pearls Of Wisdom' by Shaykh Mufti Saiful Islam, JKN Publications)